FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS

How do you screen clients?

When a client has filled out my screening form I use an encrypted service to make sure the client is safe, not listed on black lists, assure the client is not misidentifying himself and is not affiliated with law enforcement. I have zero interest in your information for anything other than my own safety and it will always be handled with the utmost discretion..

How do you communicate during scheduling?

Email Only. Please do not request that I call you or for you to call me. Not only have I found an inability to engage in a connection of the depth I enjoy at length anywhere but in person, I’m simply not capable of keeping up with messages in between our appointments both due to time and energy constraints. If I attempted to do this with the amount of inquiry received from my many clients and friends I would not only never be able to do anything else with my time, I also simply would suffer burn out. I deeply look forward to our connection when we spend time together, please understand and allow me to balance my life and energy in order to be at my best for you when we are together. You will have my full attention and energy then.

I do my best to share myself and keep those who care for me updated via my public social media as it serves this dual purpose in addition to marketing. If you do care to check in or send me notes occasionally they are likely to be received warmly by me but I do ask that you understand I may not have the time or energy available to devote to a response that it may rightfully deserve. I live an incredibly full, deeply passionate driven life balanced with many hobbies/joys as well as pursuing my goals and dreams coupled with all it takes to work towards them. This is one of the things I’m often greatly admired for but it also requires me to balance this energy in this way so that I am capable of sharing it with you fully when we are together.

What payment methods do you accept?

Bookings are always to be paid for in cash. For deposits I do accept an alternative payment method online and you will be instructed privately how to send your donation.

Do you accept gifts?

Absolutely, it is never expected but always appreciated. Please see my Spoil page for further information.

Are you available for FM2Y or Traveling together?

Yes, I am well travelled and can just as happily be taken on an adventure by you as I would be to guide you on one. Please inquire in your booking request.

Do you offer incall/outcall?

At this time I am available for outcall only.

Do you provide references?

Yes, I do provide up to 3 references for clients, provided you have booked me within the past 6 months. I do require the courtesy of informing me before you list me as a reference. I will only provide references to established, reputable and well known providers within our community for my own safety and yours.

Do you see couples?

I am more than happy to see one on one clients of any gender.

Do you offer doubles? Who are your favorite doubles partners?

Oh absolutely, in fact one of my favorite bookings was when a client booked me as a gift for his favorite provider who is also a treasured friend of mine. It is a memory I will cherish forever.

I have a an extended network of wonderful friends who are exceptional as providers who I admire greatly. I highly suggest if we have met before you request I choose someone specifically for us as I will best know who will flavor our experience in the most delicious of ways. I am also open to meeting new friends if you would like to introduce us, however this must be discussed beforehand.

Can you provide additional photos?

Can I, yes. Will I, no.

Do you offer services such as Tickling/Domination/Fetish/ASMR/Key/etc?

Selectively with established clients only. We must have at least one appointment before I would be open to pursuing any of these activities in person.

What should I do to plan in advance?
I will always be considerate and respectful of your time and I expect the same. One of the things I’ve also found is spending time looking forward to our time often can add such a taste of exhilaration in its expectation to our experience.

Advance notice of at least 24-48 hours is expected for booking an appointment. Balancing my schedule in addition to screening etc takes time. Same Day Requests will not receive a response and possibly defer me from accepting you as a client.

What type of screening do you require?
Screening is absolutely mandatory. I do not accept references or P411 as verification however they can assist in an otherwise full verification for screening. This is for my safety and is non-negotiable. It allows me to be at ease without anxiety to my safety and fully present in the moment with you. Your information will stay confidential and in an encrypted service. It will always be handled with the utmost discretion. I have no interest in and will not be using your information in any other way other than as a safeguard in case my safety was to become threatened. Every single client that sees me has passed screening, including those who have seen me for many years. I am well known and respected in my community as well as to my clients. Please out of respect for both of our time, do not attempt to falsify your information. When found out I will be forced to blacklist you as well as refuse you as a client for my safety and the safety of others.
What are your etiquette rules?
I will always arrive fresh and prepared for our time together. I expect the same. Please shower brush your teeth, mouthwash, and use deodorant shortly before our time together. Cologne is a nice touch and is always appreciated. It is never a pleasant feeling for either of us if I have to suggest you take time to freshen up, please do not place either of us in that situation.

I am offering my time to share with you and to share with you an experience of each other. I do not have a menu or a check off list nor am I interested in fulfilling one. Expectation of me to be anyone other than who I am would only severely limit and suppress the connection we would be capable of creating. I reserve the right to refuse any service or interaction at any time, do not ask me more than once, do not pressure, cajole, or attempt to push boundaries that I have stated. This will force me to end our appointment and no refunds will be given. I unfortunately must state; Respect me and my choices. I will only offer what I am comfortable with and feel safe with. Sometimes that comfortability and safety takes time to build. However I think we agree that your pleasure should not be expected to come before my safety. I will never engage in unsafe practices. Any requests or attempts for this by you of me will end our appointment.

I will never rush our time. However when our time is up it is time for me to get my things and bid you adieu. Unless you immediately request an extension and provide payment, our time will have come to its expected close. Expectation of me to go beyond our booked appointment time is disrespectful to me as well as my other clients. I would not allow this before our time together either as you will always find me fresh, recharged and prepared to give you my full attention and energy. Going over our appointed time without exchanging compensation for my energy does not allow me to give my full energy and offer the experience I am known for, to you or others.

Do you require a deposit? What if I have to cancel?
Deposit is required and is applied to our appointment. All deposits are non-refundable.

For first time clients, a 20% deposit is required for all appointments.

You will be sent a discrete option to send your deposit in order to confirm your appointment.

We of course know that life happens and some situations can simply not be avoided. I understand and respect your time but I also expect the same for mine. If for some reason a cancellation is unavoidable and done at least 48 hours before our appointment your deposit can be used towards a future appointment provided it is booked within the next 3 months of your cancellation date. If the cancellation is under 48 hours it will be accepted as compensation for canceling the booking on short notice out of respect for my time. Upon my discretion, multiple cancellations may void your ability to continue forwarding your deposit and it will be used to compensate me for my time. If after multiple cancellations or you are unable to book an appointment within three months from the original cancellation, provided I will still accept future appointments, a new deposit would be required.

How do you prefer payment is handled?
This must be handled immediately upon meeting so that it resolves any anxiety and we can let go and enjoy our experience having the business part handled and done with.

Please leave your payment minus your deposit amount in a white envelope in clear view. If I am coming to you please leave it in the restroom where I can easily see it when I go to freshen up. If you are coming to me please place it in a easy to see location in the common area and excuse yourself to freshen up while I collect it during that time. If we are meeting in public you may discretely give me the payment inside of a book or gift bag, never just pass me a envelope. Discretion is important for both of us.

At no time should you refer to the payment as this puts me at risk and will immediately end our time together.